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Hi All,
Thank you SO much for the support. I guess we all want to see a linear progress graph and having had some success want to build on it, not seeing a backslide or a plateau. Like many on here I guess after years of working with being a functioning alcoholic (with periods I have to describe as non-functioning) I'm just so pleased to see something working and a possible way out, so it is scary to think it might be waning. But you are right I'm sure, no one promised an overnight cure and I can't expect one, also I understand work needs to be put in too as well as just going "come on then cure hurry up!" (much as I might like to).
Life just isn't like that though is it? Whatever we do, booze or otherwise, has good moments and bad and if the last few days have not been a triumph then I should remember that the place I am in is so different from where I was last Christmas.
UK Blonde, yes having no booze in the house would be good but my partner is a drinker and I have to accept that there will always be some. In terrible moments he's locked it away from me and has been supportive but for the moment I'm not in any sort of crisis so there will be drink in the house and I work with that. But I know your plan of pyjamas - I've done that years back when I was single and in a bad phase, it does work. Thanks for the suggestions and I am thinking about your idea of what caving in actually is. It's a good idea to break down each actual thought like this. I've found the CBT thing of talking to your midbrain is helpful.
Maggie, as ever you've been great - thanks again, you are right and that bit further ahead so know what I'm going through.
hugs xx
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