Clarion wrote:
While not cured yet, my definition of cured would be to be totally free of the craving. If I can have alcohol around me and not have a craving to consume it, I would considered myself cured. If I then had a few drinks after abstinance, but then went back to abstinaance without the craving, that would still be cured, IMHO. I have never been abstinate, but in the book The Alcohol Deprevation Effect is discussed quite a bit, and apparently with abstinance only, the craving never goes away. That would be NOT cured, even though one is not drinking.
I too would love to hear more about how your life has changed.
Sure, abstinence on its own does not undo the learned craving. In my case, abstinence is my choice because 1) I believe I have addressed the cravings through extinction using the Sinclair Method, and 2) I don't seem to be able to drink moderately, even though the cravings are gone.
Life changes:
1. Liver function: Before I started TSM had some elevated liver enzymes related to alcohol consumption. Liver function is now completely within the normal ranges
2. Weight loss: Dropped from 103kg to 91kg, which is my ideal bodyweight. Whats that, 225 pounds down to about 200 I think.
3. No more lost productivity due to hangovers. Ever.
4. Never, NEVER, wake up in the morning wondering what I did, or alternatively, cringing at the things I said/did the night before
5. Blood pressure. I'm 51, and my blood pressure is 118/78-ish. Absolutely perfect and a little surprising for someone my age, especially since my ethnicity has a predisposition to high blood pressure / heart disease.
To be honest with you, it's about the perfect outcome. I couldn't have wished for more. Perhaps it would have been nice to be able to drink socially as well, but it's been so long now I don't really miss that either.
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