MM. We have some stuff in common! I did the AA thing too a few years back and enjoyed the male company but other than that it was just kinda depressing after a while and didn't stop any cravings - I was only clean for 34 days though, which included rehab so you've got me beat there though.
I think you will love nal but you have to be ready to stop, that is very important but it sounds like you are. I think having people around you that you are encouraging to stop might help.
Make sure you log your progress along the way, something I have a hard time remembering when I'm toasted so I try to do that in the morning.
I'm only 1 week and 3 days in - made a mistake by drinking like I used to last weekend and that was a fail. Once you start nal I would suggest that you are 100% in, if you're gona drink take the nal an hour before - that's it.
I started with a quarter of the 50 mg pill, did have slight tummy wierdness the 1st morning but other than that I didn't have any issues, I'll add that I have a weak tummy so hopefully you will have similar results. Some have said that wine gives different side-effects than spirits - I'm a vodka girl and that's all I've tested it on but if I'm in a wine/beer place I'll be testing it on that too and will post.
Good luck and my biggest piece of advice is to make sure your head is in the right place - meaning you are in 100% and want to be AF eventually.
Keep posting - our stories are supportive!
