Joined: Sun Mar 15, 2009 7:40 pm Posts: 962 Location: Florida
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zebron wrote: Hi everyone, for those who wish to know my story it is posted elsewhere in this forum. I've gone from drinking everyday, 35-45 drinks per week, to drinking only a couple of times per month, and only 3-4 drinks during those times.
I have a few questions, and perhaps someone can let me know if this is not the right forum to post these questions in... Since I've been cured by TSM and have been heading for abstinence also, I'd thought I'd answer a your questions the best I can, for what it's worth. zebron wrote: 1) Because I take NAL only a couple of times a month now, it kicks my ass every time I take it. I feel slightly naseous, and very irritable, and inevitably start yelling at my kinds around an hour after taking it (I'm not perfect but usually much more patient with them). Can anyone recommend the best way I should take my NAL (e.g., with a special kind of food or with coffee, etc...) to minimize these side effects? Honestly, I'm heading towards full abstinence just because of these effects. I don't have that particular problem and I was worried about it a little, last week. Last week, I finally decided to have that "12-step nightmare" - the first drink after a 10 week period of abstinence. As expected after a TSM cure, I had two beers after my Naltrexone and I haven't wanted any alcohol since (obviously the craving is utterly extinguished). My worry was that I would have trouble with Naltrexone side effects. Fortunately for me, I never had nausea when I first started Naltrexone, so I had minimal side effects last week too. I did take it after I ate supper, though. zebron wrote: 2) I've found the taste of alcohol has changed a lot, which as I understand from reading other posts is pretty common. I can barely stand beer now. Is there a brand of beer people have found tastes OK after being cured? What other alcoholic drinks are other people like me who are turned off by our former go to drinks able to tolerate once the taste has been ruined? (As I side note I loooove de-alc beer now and drink it almost every day. Alc beer now tastes like swill.) I only drank Guinness Stout during TSM, so last week that is what I had. The taste reminded me of the first time I had beer as a teen, not so good. I never liked NA-beer and I guess I still don't, but I don't know since I don't feel like drinking it. I know this answer doesn't give you any information, but it is my experience. zebron wrote: 3) How are others dealing with the fact that alcohol will no longer be that catalyst that leads to those wild fun times I used to have? I don't miss the asshole it made me with my wife, but I do miss how it helped me become the life of the party with my friends, and alcohol was associated with some of the best and most important times in my life. I guess this is mostly a general psychological question, but I'm wondering how others are dealing with filling the void that alcohol used to help with making things more exciting. This question probably has nothing to do with alcohol, but I thought I would ask it since I only think about it now since I feel I was cured... The " life of the party" portion of our personality that used to come out only after our inhibitions were lowered by alcohol is still within us. Cultivation of the fun side of our personality without alcohol is within us and can be successfully released with some practice. Now I have fun in social situations with little to be embarrassed about and a full memory of it the next day. In other words, the void goes away. That's about all I can offer on your questions. Enjoy your journey to abstinence, if that is your goal. Bob
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"Cured" @ Week 21 (5 Months), Current Week: 97 (23rd Month)
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