Ortho -- Many, but not all, of those who have declared themselves "cured" have put effort into limiting consumption. An example of one who did: SpringerRider, who, as a binge drinker, would make an effort for AF days to create, then extinguish, Alcohol Deprivation Effect. For daily drinkers, ADE is not a trigger to be extinguished, because we never deprive ourselves! Sinclair emphasizes that, while frequent drinking sessions are beneficial, TSM does not require consuming large quantities of alcohol per session. So in theory it would not interfere with TSM to consciously cut back. Here on the board, I've noticed the gamut of approaches to this, with a wide variation in reported success. I think those trying to cut back post about it more often, so it may appear that this approach produces better results, but I'm not convinced that's true. In fact, I suspect that the very members who achieve success with little effort are are the ones to drift away from the board, so we don't hear from them (Thankfully, bob3d, AJ_ and others are exceptions). So I'm frankly not sure what to think, so I hope folks read this and weigh in, even though it has been discussed a lot here. Bottom line: If one can cut back, then why not do it, especially since cutting back does not hamper TSM progress? To me, being capable of cutting back with some effort represents control over drinking, which is exactly what we seek.
I think the reason most people keep coming to the board is to learn from the experiences of one another. Many if not most of us learned about TSM from reading Eskapa's book. We certainly are grateful when Eskapa and Dr. Sinclair take the time to drop in here and offer advice or encouragement. But I think there are quite a few like you who prefer to rely on real-life experiences reported here. I'm glad the board is able to supply both, so people can take whatever works for them. Many of our experiences seem to be at variance with what Eskapa reports, especially as to length of treatment and side effects.
I noticed you put the "Dr" in quotes. So I thought I'd clarify and remind readers that, while Eskapa and Sinclair are not medical doctors, they are doctors. Roy Eskapa and David Sinclair both are PhD's (psychology). Both of them stress the importance of the role an MD in the basic medical management in TSM. (Of course many of us choose not to involve an MD).
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