Retread I see a silver lining in your clouds. Thank GOD or whoever that you did not marry someone who would leave you in the grease as you put it because of unstable finances. You deserve someone who loves you no matter what and for better or worse. Hope you find her. Xoxo Newlife.

Retread, I am so sorry for all that you are going through but I agree with Newlife - it could have been worse and you could have ended up marrying the person who has now shown herself to be shallow ...... hang in there and feel free to vent here !

Hugs to you, Maggie xx