hey jane,
i hear that you are nervous about what might happen with the withdrawl, but my question is, doesn't your doc know? would he/she really expect you to go cold turkey if it could be a really horrible deal for you? i hope not. perhaps a call to your doc might ease your mind a bit?
i don't have any experience with med withdrawls but i do have experience with anxiety and two things i have found helpful in the past are GABA (a supplement that hits the same receptors in the brain as benzo's) and magnesium, there's a product called "natural CALM". both of these may help with jittery anxious feelings. maybe these might help right now to calm your nerves about what's to come
wishing you an easy (and successful) time with all this,
path