Hi, dmw. Yes, TSM can definitely help you two regain control. Have you read, "The Cure for Alcoholism"? That's a good place to start never mind the documentary, 'One Little Pill'. It seems like the other forum is considerably more active at this point so you might do well to check it out and repost there:
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