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 Post subject: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2015 3:24 pm 
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So after a really bad nal over... I've had 4 days AF and can't see me wanting a drink tomorrow either. What do I do now ?? Do I take s tablet and force a drink ??xx

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 Post subject: Re: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2015 5:12 pm 
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If I were you, I would wait until you want/need to drink to take your Nal and drink. Remember, you want to "drink as you normally would" and if your body is telling you NOT to drink, you should listen to it. If you weren't doing TSM, you wouldn't drink... hang in there!

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pre TSM 25-30ish/week and rare AF - standard US drinks

MONTH 1: 25 wk/ .5 AF avg
MONTH 2: 20 wk/ 1 AF avg
MONTH 3: 21.5 wk/ .75 AF avg
Week 13: 21.5/0 AF
Week 14: 25/0 AF
Day 1: 1.5
Day 2: 4
Day 3: .5


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 Post subject: Re: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2015 5:49 pm 
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Hope,

I agree with Minnemom, but keep that nal with you at all times! If for some reason the urge hits you when you are out you must always be prepared. Do not think for one moment that it won't happen, because it will and I have been there. Had I been in the beginning stages of TSM I would have failed and drank without the nal. Do not think for one moment that alcoholic lizard brain of yours doesn't want you to drink, for it does and will at the worst time (out with your friends and no nal).

If it feels really wrong, send JoAnna a message, for she has been guiding people through this for years.

Jaba

You may have scared that lizard booze brain into submission for a while!


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 Post subject: Re: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2015 9:14 pm 
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Newhope

Congratulations on your string of successful AF days. That is awesome. But like the others have said - keep your guard up. And keep those pills close by. I have had several small strings of AF days and eventually I just wanted a drink - and since the TSM allows it - I took my pill, waited and had a drink. No need to stress over it. If you do not feel like drinking - don't. If you do, simply follow the golden rule.

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Start 6/24/15
Pre 10-14 drinks day/70-100 wk
month/avg unit week/af total
1/118/1
2/81/7
3/55/6
4/37/14
5/44/5
6/24/8
7/40/12
8/19/13af
9/27/13af
10/34/8
Month 11 - did not count
Month 12 counted last week -34/3af


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 Post subject: Re: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2015 1:39 am 
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Thanks guys ...it's the weekend so will be well prepared.

Thanks xxx

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 Post subject: Re: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2015 5:19 am 
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And if you do drink - try and be mindful about the amount so that you do not end up where you were before - it is so easy to do ..... I admire Jaba for not ever going over her 3 drinks these days but her Nal Over was so scary for her that she will never forget it !

Hugs, Maggie

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Month 12: 4 drinks TOTAL (Dec '15)
13: 2 drinks (nearly) for Jan '16 !!!
None since Jan '16 I feel that I can safely say that I am cured!


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2015 7:50 am 
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Never force anything... Ever.


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 Post subject: Re: 4 days AF now and don't want to drink yet ....
PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2015 9:29 am 
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Ditto what Ocean said. Keep us posted!

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Weeks 3-11 not tracking AF/0
Weeks 12-27 average 18-21
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