I am so glad to read this at the second try. I have been trying, for some months, but have not been compliant. Where as I actually see some result as I am compliant, I keep forgetting pills or just stay in bed for a day if I feel very bad, which causes me to feel even more bad the next day...
I have now made a scheme for myself to fill everything in (although I will not hang it on my refrigerator for visitors

) and I have sent Claudia Christian a message on FB, and got one back in return within one day! I will copy it hereunder: as an extra encouragement for all those who need it!
Dear Claudia,
I had no idea who you were untill I stumbled unto your interview about the sinclair method on YouTube.
I read through your biography on Wikipedia and am amazed what you have achieved in your life.
I am *** from Amsterdam, the Netherlands, and am trying the sinclair method since a few months. Earlier, I paid (like you) some Indian pharmacy to deliver it to me, but that didn't work, was too expensive and not delivered on time.
I am a 33 year old female with my whole future before me, I work in the banking sector with a lot of stress and reorganizations and had a burnout two years ago.
I had a good childhood, am well educated (psychology and economics), have travelled a lot and just had the accident of having had a relationship with a bipolar boy with psychoses for 4 years which made me have a survival mechanism of taking care of him and not myself.
After we broke up, I started to have sleeping problems (never had any of that before) and when my mum told me to take something to sleep, I did that for the first time 4 years ago.
I am what they call a functioning alcoholic, although sometimes I doubt whether I am one or not (denial?). I work fulltime, have my own house, a lot of friends, I sport a lot (running, field hockey etc).
I had the luck recently by lying to my gp about having alcohol problems and wanting to stay abstinent so try naltrexone, because it is free in the netherlands! Otherwise I pay 350 euro's for 70 pills from india. By lying, I got the prescription, because they wanted to get me to use antabuse.
I got a 90 pill prescription and am really trying out now.
The reason I am sending you this message, is that I hope to get some encouragement to stay compliant and not let my discipline slip.
I admire you for being so open about it and the cure, I still have to see if it works for me, but my environment wouldn't trust anything I think if I told them I have a problem.
My parents know, my mother is of irish descent and says it comes from her side.
Like you, I would just like it not to be an issue to think about! During my student days, I did not think about it and had no problem quitting whenever.
I hope to have the same effect as you had and want to stay compliant, as I do want to have children in the next couple of years and still have my looks now
I love my life and don't want alcohol to destroy it.
Thank you for reading, if this message ever gets to you personally.
With kind regards,
***
Oh and by the way; I have never used drugs in my whole life (had a joint when I was 18, but made so sick I never tried again), but never pills or anything heavier.
Because in the netherlands the access is very easy, we just don't get tempted..
Claudia Christian
Claudia Christian
Hi ***, Please feel free to email me and I will send you a PDF of the Cure for Alcoholism, the book that saved my life I've been in TSM for 5 years as of today...amazing how it changed my life! It will make you stop thinking about alcohol and it will give you back "you".... I am happy to be your support system while you go on it, it's really easy just ALWAYS take your pill one hour before your first drink of the day.....and that's it really, within a few months you will see s huge difference, I saw it right away.... Best to you and keep in touch:
Claudia Christian
Claudia Christian
and in regards to being compliant; you seem to want to get better so you will take your pill , I suggest you eat before taking it, like you I never took drugs at that point in my life when I started taking naltrexone so my system was really clean and I felt a little nauseous when I took it because I had not eaten so please eat!
Wow thank you Claudia for your quick response! This is a huge motivation for me being compliant!
I have my pills, still 75 to go, so for the next three months I will be covered
Thank you so much, I had the nauseous feeling when I got the pills from India, nodict is not the brand they say... I have got revia now.
I don't feel nauseous anymore... I am taking (next to my work) an education in NLP (neuro linguïstic programming) to solve other issues, but your message means a lot to me!
I will keep you posted on my progress.
As a psychologist I know that motivation, nature and nurture collide in many ways...
So if you have a problem, my approach is to look at it from a scientific side as well as a personal side... And TSM will be my scientific side. The rest will be my personal motivation to make everything of my life possible!
Thanks again and I do love eating, so no problem there (happily never had eating problems).
Heartily regards,
Claudia Christian
Hi ***, I am thrilled that Revia is working for you! I'm also really happy that you are so aware that every addict is different, some need more than just a biological cure, some need therapy and other methods...some even need group support. For me it was just the science I needed and boy did I need TSM! Feel free to email me if you need me Love, Claudia x