Never try to teach a pig to sing. It wastes your time and annoys the pig.
A popular 12-Step Slogan is, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result."
It is beyond me why anyone who has spent any time on this board expects a warm welcome on that board. They are twelve-steppers. Maybe some are looking to alternatives, but that does not appear to be the mission of that site. There have been shrill civil wars here about forays over there.
If anyone wants to spend time there -- fine, but please don't act surprised if you don't get a warm welcome from the board moderators there. And, as is their prerogative, they have adopted a different moderation policy than the free-speech policy we have here. We may think it's wrong, but that's up to their community. Maybe you will reach a few members by posting there, but mostly you just will upset people. If people want to find alternatives to twelve step programs, they will look around -- just as we did.
Another popular 12-step slogan is, "Live and let live."
While I view 12-step programs with disfavor, I can't help thinking they are on to something with some of their slogans.
EDIT: Lo0p, if enthusiasm counted for everything, you'd have saved the world from alcohol addiction by now. I never forget for a minute that your heart's in the right place.
