JoeSixPack wrote:
Ocean's got it right, the trick is to let the Nal help you taper it down at a rate that works for you. Nal also often helps you cap the quantity per drinking session, but I wouldn't advise, for instance, going from 30 units to 3 units, which probably wouldn't happen anyway unless you had a Nal-over that made you so sick that you couldn't manage to get any down the next day (from what I've read). But I'm a daily drinker, Ocean is the binge expert here.
What makes me fear for you is the Alcohol Deprivation Effect. From what you've posted earlier, it seems that you always start out abstinent, then you have one, over days that progresses to a few, then as time goes on you end up in a full blown binge. That's classic ADE and what's so dangerous about abstinence. It's almost like a rubber band that only lets you get so far, then snaps you back into binge-ville, even worse off than you were before. I'd advise you get the Nal in place to shield you and start leveraging your drinking into Pharmacological Extinction sessions so you weaken that rubber band and eventually, using the Golden Rule, free yourself of that tether entirely. Then you will be to the point where you can decide if you want to abstain entirely or drink in a manner that's under your full control. If you opt for the latter, then always use the Golden Rule and get that Nal blockade in place so you don't start "re-learning" the addictive drinking behavior.
Joe, thanks for responding.
Well, you know some things can't make it thru the keys to a true understanding.
Where you say I "always start out abstinent" I can count that out on one hand, pretty nearly.
I only had one full blown bender since late January of 2014. I was having an enormously difficult time of life then, I quit drinking when I needed it the most!! I had lost my job (not due to alcohol....it was a contract job, but I was jobless nontheless), been ripped off by friend for $30K+, lost a dear friend, discovered another one dead by self inflicted gunshot, moved across the country leaving my home of 15 years and left many dear friends including my band when we were just starting to make it..... It wasn't the most profound loss of my life, but it all added up to some really extreme circumstances..... I began filing for bankruptcy in May of 2014. I was suffering a mental breakdown for sure. The second one in say 3 years...
So that time I had a bender I wasn't even trying to be good, I just wanted to know nothing and experience that reckless release from real life that only a 5 day festival party can provide. And I paid for it.
But since then, I've only drank a handful of times. New years pre-eve, I didn't really "binge", though I'm sure by most peoples standards I did. Heck that would have been a worknight a few years ago and I'd have been up at 5am feeling fine. But I had withdrawals this time. Not bad, but bad enough that by noon I needed a beer. And so I nursed maybe 5 beers over 10 hours NYE, and had a few new years day, and I haven't had one since.
You are right to worry about the ADE, but you have to understand a few things.....
My life is much different now. I have taken my life back, not just from booze but from the "friend" that ripped me off and ruined my finances, and a year of hopelessness whereupon I was beginning to wonder if there was much point to living. I have a great job, that's going well, and I have some other health issues that bring me pause.
In other words, I don't want to blow it, I don't have any reasons right now that I would want to go blotto and then spend the next week coming back to earth. Quite the contrary, I just want to stop hiding at home (which is what I do when I'm not working) and start living my life a little again. TSM promises moderation and that is what I want. I do not want to screw it up.
But I also know that on my way there I won't be immune to overdoing it. I want to know what I'm doing before I do it. And that's why I'm trying to figure it out.
I think you both have answered Q1, I understand that with NAL I can enter into this with moderation from the start, and still get benefits of NAL working me back out of addiction.
But Q2, the answer is either "NO, it will never help truly deaddict you so that you could drink a moderate ++ amount with no withdrawals" or "YES, pharmacological extinction will make you less susceptible to withdrawal if you happen to drink too much.
I don't think I'll have very frequent NAL use or "extinction events" because I don't plan to drink alone at home anymore. This is pointless, and had I never done it in the first place I would not be addicted. So it would only be social and family events, perhaps some business dinners which can be the most painful of all. Or to use having a beer or two a reason to get out of the house, meet some new people, and begin this deaddiction process at the same time.
Thanks again to all, you guys are great.
Zk