Joined: Sun Mar 15, 2009 7:40 pm Posts: 962 Location: Florida
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drink2much wrote: ...If I am around other people or have adult company/friendship I drink about 50% to 80% less. So yes, my AL consumption is circumstance based... Despite what I have stated in other posts to you before, I see we are alike in this regard. Pre-"cure", when I was with my chosen social group, I would drink a lot less or not at all. In fact, it was the cause of my early AF days before TSM week 16/17 where things started to change. I could NEVER have a voluntary AF day before then, without external influences. Where we differed is that I have a highly unstructured job and social life and since I was/am a lone drinker, the circumstances often allowed me to drink anytime I was alone or at home. So I now understand your Sunday situation. It is not the day, it is the circumstance. If that circumstance were on a different day or days, you would likely be abstinent on those days too. The thought occurred to me that you sound more like an alcohol abuser and not an alcoholic. We can debate the terms. Some say they are the same, some say they are different. I am still not sure what to believe, although I tend to think they are different. Pure abusers may not be addicted. I am sure if there is in fact a difference that there are many shades between the two (e.g. 30% addicted, 70% abuser). I think I may have been a combination of the two, if there is even a difference. Is it possible to change your circumstances? That seems likely to have a very strong positive improvement on your life. Bob
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"Cured" @ Week 21 (5 Months), Current Week: 97 (23rd Month)
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