christopher.hulsey wrote:
My wife has been complaining on how early I want to go to bed, since I have been on TSM.
Mostly referring to nights that I drank very little with Nal or AF days/nights.
Her complaint and the problem stems from me being a bit extra sleepy and a bit crabby at bedtime. If I am sleepy and AF, I can fall asleep easily, but also be woken up easily. So when she comes in the bedroom, flips on the TV on a sleepy AF night, I would wake up and then have difficulty going back to sleep, and then I am crabby.
On a Nal day/evening booze treatment/session, I don't get woke up as easily.
Another side effect I personally have is that I am crabbier, like my wife says. She asked the other day If I thought my pills (Nal) were working, because she thought they were. She then commented on that they sure make me crabbier. My comment was "without my pills, I would have wanted to be crabby in the past during events that made me feel crabby, but I would not have said anything and drank instead." She simply said "I know".
So my only side effects are sleepier than normal on AF days, and crabbier and more cynical on AF days. Both are not really big problems for me and my wife. They are actually tiny problems compared to my previous volumes of booze and drunken daily lifestyle.
I think this is all part of learning to live without booze as a crutch, and you'll find the way you handle life does change as you get used to not drinking. Like you say it's a lot better than the sort of moods and behaviours excess boozing causes.