Christopher, again, we have similar things happening. My sex drive has gone up (it's pretty much as high as it can be for a normal male) but my wife's has moved in the opposite direction. We're having trouble connecting and, I think, this is partly due to a change in our ritual -- which usually involved both of us drinking some, getting buzzed, talking, and then going for it. Now, if I don't drink but make a drink for her, she feels like I'm trying to get her drunk so I can have sex with her. If neither of us drink, she doesn't seem interested and just gives me "duty booty," which I don't enjoy. Also, being a little bit drunk makes me more aggressive, which she likes at certain times. We had a terrible time at it last night and I just gave up and tried to go to sleep (I only got 5 hours, not my normal 9, because I was upset a bit). Tonight, I'm going to "try again," but this time I think I'm going to have a drink or two with her, breaking my 30 day abstinence streak (TSM isn't about counting "one day at a time" and earning sobriety tokens, anyway). It's proven that alcohol makes women more orgasmic and men less so. Really, from the start, sex has been my #1 fear in terms of NOT drinking, which might sound a bit weird. I can handle the parties and vacations and stressful situations without alcohol, but the sex thing has been a bummer.
Regarding your sex drive, hmm, I suppose it could have something to do with the gobs of Naltrexone you've consumed, but I know some people would disagree with that. If you have a wife that's still interested in sex, I'd say you should be really happy and hopeful. The greatest loneliness a human can experience is marital loneliness because it's so hopeless (you can't touch all the wonderful women you meet, you can't touch your wife -- it's complete isolation without any good options).
