Oh yes, I think the facts are definitely there, w/ the various studies, etc. Despite the hard evidence and data, TSM is SO contrary to everything we've ever been taught about alcohol problems and the ONLY way to deal with it (complete abstinence) that it just seems "too good to be true". I know I learned about it a full year before I finally admitted to myself I couldn't see any downside to it, and gave it a 'go", thank goodness. I think the older a person is, & hence the longer they've been subjected to the long-held ideas about alcohol addiction, the harder it is to be open minded about TSM. I see younger people come here and they seem more nonchalant to the idea it might be real and okay!
Sailorbox, here is another thread I really love, about how Half Glass discovered there was no "dark secret" driving her drinking, no big "moral defect"...it was simply a physical problem and TSM deals w/ that, effectively and non-judgmentally. Our culture has made drinking problems such a big moral issue and so shameful. It's simply that some of us were born w/ a higher susceptibility to the effects of alcohol and circumstances combined to make it a problem for some of us.
viewtopic.php?f=9&t=2145&p=39793&sid=c84050c9380c80c12173f00f82c789eb#p39793I think your vision of Christmas is very realistic, and you'll be ready when the time comes. I'm visiting family for Thanksgiving and it is such a far cry from many previous holidays. I had 2 beers tonight, and though they tasted interesting and were mildly pleasant, the diet root beer I'm having now is just as good! Who knows where I will be by NEXT TG???
